Your style does not define you. Not alone. People look at you every day, whether you want them to or not, and the choices you make about clothing and grooming and accessories contribute to the overall impression you give. You can tell the world about your favorite colors and textures, about your favorite era in history, about your favorite aspects of your figure through the dressing choices you make. What you wear contributes to the first level of your public identity, and you can exercise some measure of control over that identity. But you are more than just your style.
Originally posted 2010-08-09 05:18:00.
LPC popped this question into the suggestion box:
I’d love to know how you dressed beFORE you started looking at style the way you do now. Or as a teen. You have a very distinct style now. Was it always that way? I know you’ve talked about it here and there, but I haven’t seen a full post, I don’t think, on this topic.
I expected to cringe and groan as I sifted through old photographs of myself, embarrassed by my obliviousness and ashamed of my formerly messy style. But you know what I learned? High school wasn’t much fun and I could barely scrape up a single photo from it, but MAN, I loved college. Loved it. I looked radiantly happy in every photo, even the hilariously weird ones. Which I will now proceed to share with you.
Originally posted 2010-07-23 05:20:00.
When you peer into your closet, are you able to instantly envision approximately 57 gajillion casual ensembles and slightly fewer workweek ideas? Do you panic a little, thinking “I’m at the office all week long! How are all those cute-but-work-inappropriate outfits gonna help me?”
Take a few deep breaths and accept that it’s just fine to brim with casual creativity. Here’s why:
Three out of seven: I realize that some gainfully employed women are expected to look sharp all week, but many of us are lucky enough to indulge in Casual Fridays. That means that fun, casual dressing occupies three out of seven days each week.
Originally posted 2010-07-21 05:22:00.