Lovely Links: 7/25/14

I’m partnering with fellow stylist Carly Gaztlaff of A La Mode Wardrobe Consulting for
a shoe-focused workshop on August 24! We’ll be talking about how to choose shoes for your outfits and figure-flattery priorities. Details and ticketing information right here.

August 24
2 p.m. – 3:30 p.m.
Mall of America Executive Center, Boundary Waters Suite, Level 4
$30

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Weekly Kitten:

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That’s my girl.

Nordstrom hired Jillian Mercado – the same amazing model that Diesel used in their spring campaign. She and her wheelchair are featured in the Nordstrom July catalog. Found this article via The Closet Feminist’s Fashion x Ability Pinterest board.

Mood lipstick. My inner child is overjoyed that this exists.

In other throwback news, it looks like scrunchies are coming back. I will admit to being relieved that I have too little hair to consider whether or not to try this trend on its second time around.

Nothing like a fabulous, floral, retro-influenced dress to make a gal feel sassy in the summer heat.

“While videos by women celebrating female strength and diverse forms of beauty are important, Legend’s video is a fantastic first step in breaking down the uninformed stereotype of feminism as a female-only goal to bring men down … Legend’s adoption of a feminist agenda as a straight man clues other men into the ways they can understand and associate with the cause.”

And a thoughtful counterpoint to that perspective here from Arianna Rebolini.

I seriously love Sheila for creating a series of posts titled, “Shoes My Husband Hates.”

Nars’s Sheer Matte Foundation in Siberia gets rave reviews from many pale girls, but Amber gives it a big thumbs down. She also links to her older post on foundations that work for pale complexions.

Since I was wearing my pair when I read it, I feel I must point you to Angie’s list of four reasons to love boyfriend jeans.

Here’s why Esquire stating that the modern-day 42-year-old woman is WAY hotter than the 42-year-old woman of days gone by isn’t all that comforting. Or helpful.

Amanda asserts her right to bare arms. (I agree!)

Stripes, leopard, and a red full skirt. You can imagine how I swooned over this outfit.

I’ve got openings for online and in-person style clients for August. AND! Launched a new closet clean-out service. Details here.

It seems an African woman, or woman of African heritage, can only be one, never in between – either exotic, or not. The July Vogue presentation reinforces that idea while perpetuating the notion that the value of a woman of color is based on her outward appearance and nationality.”

Lisa alters the proportions on her dropwaist dress by tying a blouse at her natural waist. BRILLIANT.

The Curvy Fashionista offers five observations about plus size fashion, most of which are optimistic. And she created a graphic to be shared with the various vendors who aren’t yet paying attention to the plus size community.

“You don’t need someone else to tell you how to take care of your body. Your body will tell you. But, you have to be open to receiving the information – even when it differs from your plans. The more that you listen to the wisdom dwelling in your skin, the more at home you will feel and the louder that voice will become.”

The Bloggess explains feminism passionately and succinctly. Well, aside from the shark and bee analogies. Which are hilarious.

This interview with makeup artist Nick Barose was fascinating to me. In it, he talks about why red carpet makeup looks odd in real life and kinda rails against contouring makeup for everyday use.

Leaders of Today and Tomorrrow (LOTT), the leadership program that I co-chair, is recruiting mentors and fellows! We’d love to have you!

An interesting piece on why the recently coined term “fatkini” and the style of suit it describes might actually be a little counterproductive. English is at the bottom. (Cheers, Maria!)

Racked compared jean sizing from 25 mall and mainstream retailers. Unsurprisingly, there was a lot of variation.

Goodness, Khatu looks amazing in her sequin shorts. Love the whole outfit.

After a man she was dating told her that her wrinkles and stretch marks turned him off – bluntly and callously – Robin made a concerted effort to see and love her 59-year-old body.

“But what I would want the little girl waiting in line to do, what I would want us all to do, is internalize it. Know, without anyone having to tell us, without any hesitation, that we ARE beautiful. As we are. We are so much more too. We are capable and insightful and delightful, but it’s okay to know that we are beautiful. Beautiful is a soul thing.”

On the Fox 9 Buzz, I gave some tips for wearing animal prints.

AND! I spoke with Channel 12 about shopping subscription services like Stitch Fix and Gwynnie Bee.

This made me cry. Love this interview with Colbie, too.

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  • ballewal

    Gah, Disqus ate my comment when I signed in! Let me try again.

    I agree with both articles about John Legend’s music video. While I agree that the trope of “woman not knowing she’s beautiful” needed to be retired long ago, I also have to give big kudos this video. I don’t think I’ve seen as diverse a cast in a music video, ever.

    • rmstanek

      “Happy” has a pretty diverse cast, in its delightful tour of L.A.

      • ballewal

        Good to know! I hadn’t seen the video yet. I do have a love/hate relationship with Pharell though.

  • rmstanek

    I noticed the Traister article (from the New Republic) had a much more negative take on the John Legend video than the About-Face post did. What are your thoughts?

    • Definitely. And actually I included them both because I can see good points on both sides.

  • Thank youuuuu. xx