Expertise, diversity, and inclusion are all important within the context of this blog. To help foster a community that embraces a variety of viewpoints and welcomes all ideas, these amazing women have agreed to contribute topical and outfit posts to Already Pretty!
PLEASE NOTE: At this time, Already Pretty is not accepting new contributors.
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I remember precisely the moment I first became interested in style. I was five, and a guest at one of my parent’s dinner parties showed me how to design clothes for my paper dolls. I don’t remember when I first became fascinated with Paris, but it feels like that pull was always there. I began studying French back in Junior High School, though ultimately never had the resources to visit Paris until the year I turned fifty.
I began my blog, Une femme d’un certain âge in 2007, shortly after turning fifty, and finding myself exasperated by what felt like a serious lack of stylish clothing for women my age. I was also in the planning stages for that first Paris trip, and obsessed about what to pack and wear in that city with a reputation as one of the most stylish in the world. At the time there seemed to be no style blogs out there addressing our age group, so I started blogging in the hopes of connecting with like-minded women and starting a conversation about life and style for our demographic. And I was hoping to explore and hone my own style further.
Since then, I’ve been delighted to find so many other blogs and make some wonderful friends through blogging. I’ve had the wonderful fortune to meet some of those bloggers and readers both locally and in other parts of the world on our travels. The support and encouragement from people I’ve never even met has overwhelmed me at times. I’m delighted to be a part of this community that is positive, empowering, and from which I’ve learned so much.
Luanne D’Souza aka Weesha is a plus size fashion blogger, body image warrior, foster mom at her local animal shelter, and an online marketing professional. Originally from Goa, India, she has lived her whole life in multicultural Dubai. Through her blog, Weesha’s World, Luanne shares her passion for style at every size and budget, and promotes fashion as a tool for self-expression and creativity, not a mold to adapt to.
Having struggled with negative body image all her life, from eating disorders to self-harm, Luanne blogs both to improve herself and to help others like her combat the daily bombardment of negativity towards women who aren’t “perfect.”. She hopes that her outfit posts, style inspiration, and personal experiences as a fat girl help break the incorrect idea that fat equals unhappy or ugly.
Contributing to Already Pretty is kind of a huge deal for Luanne. Not only is it a wonderful learning experience, but she also gets to be a part of a wonderful team that shares and promotes the same message, “Love Yourself”.
I started my blog, Fashion for Giants, in January 2011 for a couple of reasons. One, I’ve always enjoyed the process of getting dressed in the morning. I think everything that goes into determining what I’m going to wear, to work or otherwise, is pretty fascinating. I take my body image for the day, the image I want to project to others, the weather, my destination and a myriad of other things into account when deciding what to leave the house in. And I like that. I like thinking about it and, being a little bit nerdy, figured I’d like writing about it too.
The other reason I started my blog is that while I can, and do, get inspiration from bloggers who are the polar opposite of me size-wise, it’s nice to see bloggers built like me too. When a blogger is tall and broad-shouldered, like I am, I don’t have to do as much guesswork about how a look might work on my body. And I thought if I liked reading blogs where the bloggers were built like me, then others might as well.
Now, I don’t claim to be an expert on fashion or personal style. No, my areas of expertise are limited to reading, dealing with rebellious thighs and subversive hips, and smiling. But, I know my body and I know what I like to put on it. And I know how to take pictures of what I put on my body (not good pictures, just pictures). And I know how to write some (often nonsensical) words to accompany those pictures.
Given my particular skills and the two reasons above, I figure personal style blogging was practically my destiny, so here I am!
The author of Reluctant Femme, Cassie is a queer thirty something Australian who thinks too much, reads too much, talks too much, and collect way too many pretty things.
She is enormously nerdy by nature – sci-fi, roleplaying, video games, comics, the whole deal. She even wears glasses! Her nerdiness largely manifests as an obsessive need to research the crap out of anything she gets even a passing interest in, which has resulted in her brain being jam packed full of totally useless information on a ridiculously wide variety of topics. Want to know about wolf symbolism in Croatian folklore? Want to know how to get the edges of your nail polish all crisp and perfect? Want to know more about sex positive, pro-sex worker, intersectional feminism? Cassie can (and has been known to) talk about all of these things in the same breath.
Her writing revolves around an exploration of femme concepts, beauty products, feminism, and how they intersect with being a queer, poly, cisgender woman. She lives for comments, so if you’re reading by all means speak up! Even if you think she’s full of crap, she always likes to hear feedback.
Lily A. Zehner is a sex therapist, blogger, and doctoral student at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. Her private practice, The Center for Authentic Intimacy, is located in Wheat Ridge, Colorado.
She is passionate about living authentically and helping clients do the same. She believes that letting our real selves shine is the key to self-love and finding true intimacy with others. She believes all bodies are good, beautiful, and perfectly imperfect. At times she struggles with this about her own body, but self acceptance can be a challenging road and it’s one she’s willingly chosen.
It’s taken time, but Lily has found her voice and she’s not afraid to use it! Her loud voice and boisterous laugh have become two of her most distinctive features. She’s also proud of her sizable, lovable rump, which grows ever larger as a result of CrossFit. She loves skinny jeans … so long as they have LOTS of stretch!
Lily’s definition of style is anything that makes the wearer feel sexy, comfortable, and confident.
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Please welcome these smart, insightful, talented, stylish ladies into the Already Pretty fold! Got a question or reader request for Une Femme, Weesha, Gracey, Cassie, or Lily? Drop it in a comment on a contributor post, or send it to me at [email protected] and I’ll forward it along!