Posts Categorized: reader requests

Reader Requests: Why Are SO Many Dresses Sleeveless?

why dresses sleeveless

Gerri popped this one into the suggestion box:

I would love a post about why they don’t make dresses with sleeves anymore? Why can’t I find dresses with flattering sleeve lengths for summer (about midway to elbow)? I’m so tired of having to buy shrugs and jackets then coordinate them over all my dresses. I have a few dresses that fit great and are flattering but need different lengths/cuts/colors of shrugs and jackets. It’s discouraging. Do designers do this so we have to buy more clothes? We have hot humid summers so wearing my regular jackets doesn’t work. Any insights/advice about this would make me so happy! READ MORE

Originally posted 2015-03-30 06:30:54.

Reader Request: Effective Inventories and Honed Style


Beautiful reader Elisabeth wrote in with this fabulous request:

I’d love to see your interpretation of this kind of exercise for women (like me!) who keep buying the same black cardigan and long sleeve T over and over again. If I (or anyone) were to make an inventory of the clothes that we own, what kinds of questions should we be asking ourselves after the list has been made?

My personal issue is that I love clothes and get inspired by what I see on on other women and on fashion blogs, but I always end up buying things that do not make me feel stylish. My desired image does not match what is in my closet. And it’s not a matter of finance – I don’t have expensive taste in clothes or shop too little or too much. I just don’t know how to assess what I really want to add to or discard from my wardrobe. So, I was thinking, as a style-savante, you might have some tricks up your sleeve for training your readers to know their own personal style-sense a bit better, and suggesting how to decide how to buy new clothes or use the items we already have to create the look we want. READ MORE

Originally posted 2010-07-05 05:45:00.

Reader Request: Revised Tattoo

I’ve gotten a few questions about my revised ankle/leg tattoo, so I thought I’d tackle them today. Here’s what this piece¬†looked like before the revision:

tattoo before

It’s a little hard to articulate what motivated this change, but I just knew it was time to tweak. After a couple of meetings with artist Zack Kinsey, he hit the nail on the head. “It doesn’t look finished,” he said, and although I hadn’t really known it before, I agreed. This tattoo was also the one with the least compelling story and least personal meaning. It was loosely based on a drawing of mine from 15 years ago, but aside from it being “growth”-related and a design I liked, it wasn’t terribly specific or special. READ MORE

Originally posted 2015-08-15 06:47:52.