Posts Categorized: lovely links

Lovely Links: 7/18/14

I’ve got openings for online and in-person style clients for August.
AND! Launched a new closet clean-out service. Details here.

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Weekly Kitten:


Love this visual celebration of women sporting long silver or gray hair.

A fabulous and fresh palette of blues, tan, and rust that would translate beautifully into a summery outfit. Design Seeds is a great resource for color inspiration.

This DIY roundup includes minimalist copper bar earrings and a funky knotted neckpiece. And THIS one offers 10 tank top refashions for the dog days of summer.

“My ‘problem area’ has in fact been my greatest teacher in self-love. In forgiving its flaws, over and over and over, I have learned to forgive the actual flaws in myself and in the world. In learning to see its value and appreciate what it does for me, I have learned to see the value in myself even when I feel like there is none to be found.”

The Recovering Shopaholic explores the dark side of style redefinition.

Well. Marvel’s new Thor is a woman. One of the writers states, “This is not She-Thor. This is not Lady Thor. This is not Thorita. This is THOR. This is the THOR of the Marvel Universe.”

Our resident expert on tall fit and sizing, the marvelous Gracey, offers advice on a fit woe that plagues many tall women: Workarounds for too-short maxi dresses.

In other maxi news, Tanesha looks ravishing in her pleated, colorblocked maxi.

This interview with Alicia of Spashionista is a great read. Alicia has cerebral palsy and uses a wheelchair much of the time, so she talks about the joys and challenges of being a style lover with a physical challenge. Her blog dropped out of my reader for unknown reasons, but I’m a big fan!

Over on Facebook, I shared my thoughts about the questionable body positivity of Meghan Trainor’s single “All About That Bass.” Great discussion from the community, too.

Mantras, redirects, and general wisdom for those times when you are forced to be in the company of body-shamers.

Here’s a reminder that manufacturing discontent in women is a practice with a long and weird history: The 19th-century health scare that told women to worry about “bicycle face” (Via Skepchick)

I’ve got openings for in-person and online style consults at the end of July and beginning of August! Reach out if you’re interested.

Performance artist Nate Hill has taken the racist, sexist trope of men surrounding themselves with naked or naked-ish women to a new level, saying, “I wear white women [as scarves] for status and power.” Decidedly NSFW.

Locals take note: Lots of fun style-focused events coming up in the Twin Cities.

Chastity of GarnerStyle offers her picks for plus-sized strapless bras.

Absolutely adore Alison’s tips for how to wear wrinkle-prone linen without looking disheveled.

“As a woman, wearing something that is made for a guy is considered cool, edgy, interesting … Men wearing something intended for women is most often seen as being ridiculous and demeaning.”

Tamia pairs her chic black jumpsuit with a printed shrug and adds bold yellow nail polish to finish off the look.

I’m my latest for Huffington Post, I talk about why I love my knees.

This 20-question quiz can help you explore your beauty and body beliefs, and tease out some unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors.

On her blog Unfancy, Caroline picks a 37-piece capsule wardrobe for each season and creates outfits solely from those pieces. Great interview with her here.

The Truth in Advertising Act is gaining slow steam in Congress. This legislation will affect how and when Photoshop can be used in ads, though sadly not in editorial.

The Budget Babe shares ideas for wedding guest outfits for nursing moms.

As an ardent fan of the striped shirt, I loved this little history lesson on Breton tops from Alterations Needed.

All I want is to be able to eat what I want for lunch without comment, to dance in a tight dress without fretting, to be able to love this squishy, funny body I’m in without feeling guilty. I want to be a Happy Fatty, not a Bad Fatty, and just I don’t understand why it’s so important for to some people to try and keep me from that.”

These micro-wedge sandals arrived this week and they are comfy summer footwear embodied, I swear. Never heard of the Bella Vita brand before, but am exploring more options from them now.

Melanie’s up-cycled cropped jacket is stunning. Almost like a removable back-piece and half-sleeves.

Loving the look of t-shirts knotted at the waist. Such a fun way to do casual chic.

Check out these four simple questions that can help you determine your personal wardrobe staples.

“I think about this a lot because it ties well into the idea of a minimalist wardrobe: namely, a closet filled with 100% with clothing you love and wear frequently. I’ve found that the smaller I whittle down my wardrobe, the more preoccupied I become with understanding and crafting the message I’m conveying by what I wear.”

Acclaimed director David Lynch has designed a line of women’s workout clothes. Because hey. He’s David Lynch.

I can get behind nearly every one of these 21 Style Promises Every Woman Should Make To Herself. Well played, Ella Ceron.

And from the Department of Random: Joss Whedon Makes More “Buffy the Vampire Slayer”

Additionally: A New Supply of Oddly Specific Niche Blogs. My fave? Animals Sitting on Capybaras. Includes bunnies, turtles, lots of monkeys, some capybara mating (natch) and, of course, ducks.

And finally: Don’t even tell me that this isn’t a statue of Ron Swanson.

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Lovely Links: 7/11/14

On the evening of July 24 I’ll be at Bella Boutique in South Minneapolis
for a free event! Join me to learn how to incorporate
various types and styles of jewelry into your own outfits.
Attendees will receive 15% off fashion accessories in the boutique during the event!

Complete Your Outfits with Jewelry

July 24
5:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m.
Bella Boutique, 3100 50th St W., Minneapolis

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Weekly Kitten:


There is only one place in the house that they’ll cuddle like this and it is on the seat of my office chair. Which is also the only place in the house where I really need to sit. My solution? Use HM’s office chair. I never have the heart to kick them out.

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An amazing poem about size, acceptance, and judgement. (Via Adios Barbie)

Dollar Store Crafts rounds up 10 ways to upgrade your shades for summer. The polka dot makeover is my fave.

Slightly more advanced: Merrick shows us how to transform a pair of printed PJ pants into trendy track pants.

Valérie looks utterly smashing in her digital patchwork print maxi dress.

This series of body-positive drawings and accompanying text by Brazilian graphic designer Carol Rossetti are utterly inspiring. I hope the images will be available as prints for purchase someday, and have stashed most of them in my Body Positive Pinterest board until then.

Great tips for making classic basics like tees, jeans, and jackets feel timeless but also fresh.

“Bosses across the country constantly tell their employees to ‘act professionally’ without a second thought. Wear a garment that represents your non-Western culture to work? Your boss may tell you it’s unprofessional. Wear your hair in braids or dreadlocks instead of straightened? That’s probably unprofessional too. Wear shoes that are slightly scuffed because you can’t yet afford new ones? People may not think you’re being professional either.”

This outfit is right up my alley, from the quirky printed dress and fun blazer to classic heels and chunky necklace.

A fabulous perspective on how we conceptualize ourselves: Your body is not your art, it is your paintbrush (via Smart, Pretty, & Awkward)

I could relate to ALL of these curly hair issues, and loved the proffered solutions.

“I truly believe that the plus size movement has been built by the grassroots efforts of women of color. The majority of U.S. plus size bloggers are African American and Latina and two major movements in the plus size community, Full Figured Fashion Week and Plus Model Magazine, were both founded by women of color.”

Related: The Curvy Fashionista rounds up eight great plus-focused magazines.

My two favorite black-and-white outfits of the week: Jen in tulle and GACW in leather.

Will be keeping my eyes peeled for a screening of the documentary “Raising Ms. President” here in the Twin Cities. Anyone seen it yet?

“Because a triple zero is an impossible goal for most women, critics are labeling this trend as ‘horrifying.’ Disturbing. Concerning. Cataclysmic. And I get that. But aren’t all of societies messages that cause you to hate your body horrifying, disastrous, and cataclysmic? They all take a negative toll on our psyche, body, and life. What I’m trying to say is: the ‘Triple Zero’ phenomenon is just another trend that highlights the extreme inferiority that our society peddles for profit. ”

Maybe it’s time to let go of “perfect” and revel in your today-body.

On the Fox 9 Buzz, I offered tips for layering and accessorizing maxi dresses … and a way to “build” your own!

Great for a giggle: DIY beauty suggestions that utilize items you already have. In your garage.

I’m wearing my comfy flat Bass sandals into the ground and in the market for a second pair. These metallic Clarks are in the running, as are these Nautralizers.

This all-white outfit is stunning. And a suit-like look I would totally love to wear.

From a great piece titled, “Girls On Top – Who Really Benefits from Sexuality, Identity and Branding in Pop Music?”: “For contemporary artists, there are a stream of expectations, many of which are difficult to reconcile with the love of making music. In fact, the industry is riddled with a need to satisfy an audience’s expectations of how pop stars should look.”

Wendy is calling it: Big hoops will be the next big thing in jewelry. She has proof.

Just plain love this: Your Female Characters Are So Strong

The printed accents on Audrey’s cobalt dress make it such a memorable piece.

“It is often said that ‘Washington is Hollywood for ugly people,’ but the adage is only half true. Women are not allowed to be ugly people because women—and nowhere more than in such women’s magazines that reduce female political leaders to their supposed fashion and lifestyle choices—are not really allowed to be people at all.” (Via Capitol Hill Style, love Belle’s commentary on this link, too.)

And from the Department of Random: I’m a sucker for stuff like this. 12 Wonderfully Quirky Words with No English Equivalent. List includes “uffda,” commonly heard here in MN and irritatingly butchered by the cast of the otherwise stunning FX series “Fargo.” (I forgive them. Mostly.)

Additionally: I had lunch with my dear friend Annie Wilder this week and made one of the only actual recipes I use in my life, this lemon-oregano couscous salad. I made a double batch. You should all come over and have some because a double batch is WAY too much.

And finally: Blame Sarah for this one.

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Lovely Links: 7/3/14

We’ll do links a day early this week, since I’ll be holidaying tomorrow and hopefully many of you will, too!

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On the evening of July 24 I’ll be at Bella Boutique in South Minneapolis
for a free event! Join me to learn how to incorporate
various types and styles of jewelry into your own outfits.
Attendees will receive 15% off fashion accessories in the boutique during the event!

Complete Your Outfits with Jewelry

July 24
5:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m.
Bella Boutique, 3100 50th St W., Minneapolis

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Weekly Kitten:

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Ashley shares style-related life lessons she’s learned before turning 30, all of which are incredibly insightful.

Orange, white, and tan work so wonderfully together for summer outfits.

“I will learn at 17 what it takes some people decades to accept: that pretty girls who play to patriarchy and ugly girls who never got asked to a school dance suffer just the same. That the same trick is being played on all of us. There is no way to play the perfect-girl game and win.” (Trigger warning for self-harm and eating disorders)

I’m embarrassingly lax about cleaning my brushes, but this formula for a natural makeup brush cleaner has me reconsidering my routine.

Like a French braid, but easier.

Dear GQ Writer Who Reinforced the Fallacy that Women Cannot Be Both Pretty and Smart: BITE ME. Olivia Wilde invites you to do the same.

Recently added this sunscreen to my daily routine. It is literally the only formula I’ve ever felt comfortable smearing all over my acne-prone face. Light, clean, and non-goopy.

Thrilled to hear that Nicolette Mason has designed a collection for Modcloth, and that all pieces will be available in sizes 0 – 4X!

Author Nichelle Gainer has a forthcoming book titled Vintage Black Glamour. Loved this interview with her on her research, family, and why she believes glamour is important.

Just plain brilliant: 10 Ways We Body Shame Without Realizing It

“It is not just the outside world whose attitude must change, it is ours as girls. If we want girls to be proud of their gender, we need to celebrate every aspect of it, never using it as a weapon. We must acknowledge the girly girls as much as we do the sporty book worms, we must stress that there is no difference between girls, whether they want to spend money on make up or on tough mudder entry fees.” (The ad highlighted was directed by Lauren Greenfield, whose entire body of work is STELLAR)

On the Fox 9 Buzz I offered some ideas for doing (understated) red, white, and blue in style.

Katha pairs a white shirt and handmade lilac skirt with black accents. So unexpected and chic.

A great and incredibly concrete reminder that clothing sizes are totally arbitrary.

This eShakti dress is rocking my world right now. And they’re doing a buy 2 get 1 free deal through Friday.

How do you choose a piece of clothing that will take your wardrobe in a new direction, while still working with what you already have? A great and tough question.

Adorable and totally do-able, even for DIY novices: Embroidery Floss-wrapped Sandals. (Via Dollar Store Crafts)

An eye-opening read about what it’s like to be an asexual woman in a culture that frequently equates womanhood with sex.

That pair of pants doesn’t look fabulous on you? Those must be someone else’s pants. (My thoughts on this topic here.)

An amazing intro to a series of posts about “Most Important Ugly”: “I believe makeup is magic – a chaotic neutral if you want to be precise about it. For so many people, it’s intimidating and scary and suffocating and heavy with the weight of expectations and failed fantasy. I was definitely one of those people for a long time. But somewhere along the way (read: my mall goth days at the age of the 13) I learned that blue lipstick could make boys recoil and make me look like an alien from Farscape. And so, I decided to change my tune.”

Such a centering, body- and person-positive mantra.

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This post highlights three retailers who are doing plus-size right, and reminds other manufacturers that their discriminatory practices aren’t going unnoticed.

Love Gracey’s mashup of stripes, speckles, and bold brights.

Instead of holding your breath until you lose weight, drop inches, get more or less muscular, change your hair color, change anything else, let it out. Exhale. Because once you exhale, you feel freer, calmer, more focused — and healthier, because let’s face it, holding your breath won’t do you any good!”

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