
Historically, I have purchased shoes for comfort first, fashion second. Not a bad philosophy, but comfort and fashion do not need to be mutually exclusive. Ideally, shoes should be both fashionable and comfortable.
Guys, if this hasn’t sunk in yet, the ladies do check out your shoes and judge you. Sally even has an ex-boyfriend whose nickname is “Bad Shoes.” Think about that when you buy your next pair of generic loafers, Crappy Loafer Boy!
One of the advantages of living with a wife who writes a fashion blog is that I get to learn a thing or two. The first shoe lesson I learned was that shoes by John Fluevog are well made, comfortable, and stylish. The second thing I learned is that they cost over $100. I never knew shoes could cost over $100. However, I’m sure I’ll be passing along my Angel wing-tipped Fluevog combat boots to some teenage grand-nephew 40 years from now …
My Fluevogs are awesome, but except for a few interesting details, they (and most other man-shoe options) are pretty standard-looking. Where are the truly unique man-shoes hiding? Many of them are hiding at www.cydwoq.com. (Go there now and come back. I’ll wait. You need to see the options for man-shoes at Cydwoq before this discussion continues.)
As far as I know, Cydwoq shoes for men are not sold in stores in Minneapolis, Chicago, or Madison. I know. I’ve looked. I found a store in San Francisco that sold them, but they were closed and it was the last day of my vacation.
I found them in Milwaukee at an awesome store called Shoo. Everything in this store was interesting-looking, both for men and women. Kate – the helpful and enthusiastic shop owner – immediately noticed the Fluevogs that I was wearing, and I believe they were my pass into the secret club where I would be shown other cool shoes. Shoo carried two styles of short Cydwoq boots I had been looking for. I bought the Detect.
You can see in the composite image that these are versatile and handsome shoes. Check me out. Here I am right out of the shower brushing my teeth, weighing the cat, checking my blood pressure, sniffin’ the milk after a hard bike ride, and sitting on the stoop wondering where my glasses are. You can do anything in these shoes. They are just that comfortable. There is something about a steel plate in a sole that is happy-making for the feet.
(Click image to enlarge)~Teeth brushing, cat weighing, blood pressure taking, milk sniffing, stoop sitting~
But are these shoes also fashionable? All I know is that I am at work for less than 10 minutes before a female coworker spots them from across the room and says, “I don’t know if I can say this to a guy a work, but I’m gonna say it: Those shoes are CUTE!” I told her the word she was looking for was, “Awesome,” but I’d take cute.
The Detect are kind of Hobbit-like in their design, which I also think is cool, but they certainly won’t be for everybody. Here is another lesson I learned: Hand-made, artistically-designed, guaranteed-to-last shoes can cost $295! That’s a tough lesson to learn, but these lessons get easier. Trust me.
I’ll close by saying that if you are ready for a nick name other than Crappy Loafer Boy, find your most stylish lady friend or man friend and have her/him take you where the cool shoes can be found (perhaps to Shoo if you are near Milwaukee). Comfortable and fashionable can be found in the same shoe, and you’ll be a happy guy when you find it.
Husband Mike is a regular contributor to Already Pretty, and to Sal’s style.



















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Hi there-they are definitely a cool pair of shoes, very timeless in style! Hope you both have a great weekend and to Sal, thanks so much for my birthday wishes!
Those shoes are indeed cool. Glad to know that milk-sniffing is a universal guy thing!
The cydwoq website says they are are sold at Ensemble in Minneapolis and Counterpoint in Rochester.
Those are some truly cool shoes. Love the many things you can do while wearing them too. HA!
Thank you for sharing this. My boy has big feet, and I love the fact that Cydwoq come in bigger sizes! I will definitely be heading down to Shoo!
Great post! It took me a couple of years to convince my husband of the wonder of Fluevogs (we have a couple stores in Vancouver), but now he's a devoted fan (he just got the red Iggys, check them out) and gets a new pair once a year.
I don't think he'd go for the Cydwoq, but they are cool.
"Shoes make the man."
Yay Sweet HM! The shoes are fabulous! I showed Mr. Allison and he was a little suspect of the design. However, in his defense, he does own some killer Campers and a couple other classic, well-made shoes. He understands the value of a good shoe. I just think he needs a good CASUAL go-to-for-anything shoe.
I trust you that we must comfortable with the shoes…. Fashion, second… That's the man said… hehehe LOL
thank you so much for this post! my boyfriend loves special shoes with nice detailing, but with a size european 48 it's not easy to find anything good looking apart from docmartens. as soon as i am done studying and actually earn some real money i will buy him a pair of those. he'll love them i'm sure..
There is something very appealing about those odd looking shoes. I like them! And I love any guy who can write about shoes.
Love the design…comfort before fashion is a good thing, but always seek for both when possible… Fab weekend beautiful Sal! ~Greetings*
Love your post, especially the photos! So funny! Love the shower shot!
Awesome guest post!! Husband Mike is hilarious and super stylish in his cute, ahem, awesome shoes! S.
those are awesome! I just showed them to Hub and he agrees!
i just came to think about soemthing i'd like to know: do you have any experience in how long those cydwoqs last if you wear them daily? my boyfriend's docmartens last almost two years, but i do have a feeling that those will last longer, and that you actually can take them to a shoemaker and resole them so to make them last even longer?
–Froken Lila–though I have only had the shoes for a few weeks. I expect them to last forever. They have steel plates in the sole, so that helps, and are hand stitched so cobbling is possible as well.
–Middle Aged Woman–Women's Cydwoqs are sold in MN, but not men's.
Men should demand cooler, high-quality shoes so we have more options in more places!
fröken lila: A friend of mine turned ME onto this brand, and then I turned Mike onto it. This friend has had her pair of Cydwoqs for about 6 years and had them re-soled twice. They look a little beat up, but not at all shabby and she says they're just as comfy as the day she bought them, if not more so.
this. is hilarious. i just about died laughing. and i feel so informed about men's footwear now, and very liberated in my potential criticism/initial judgment of what a guy wears on his feet. i have always thought i should look past the bad shoes, but now i know i can at least pause there and i don't have to try to ignore them altogether (and that maybe they should even be a good test, hmmm?).
mike and sal: thank you so so much for your answers!! if i have to i will force a pair upon my better half, i really am totally persuaded that they would be perfect for him.
Hi there! You made my day! Thanks for the kind words about (shoo)! I totally remember you guys! I hope you ended uip having a great time while you stayed in Milwaukee! I am SO happy you love your Cydwoqs! You are an addict now! Once you walk on the Cydwoq – its hard to walk in the street!
"I never knew shoes could cost over $100." Awwww, how cute!
"~Teeth brushing, cat weighing, blood pressure taking, milk sniffing, stoop sitting~"
If you could die from cuteness, that photoshoot would have totally killed me.
Mike – love this post. Great shoes. But everyone knows that you do not wear them on a scale!!!
Great post, HM! Mark has raved about his Cydwoqs so many times that I finally got myself a pair, and I have to say that they're probably the most comfortable things I've ever put on my feet. Haven't tried them for any milk-sniffing yet, but I'm guessing they'll fit the bill.
Those shoes ARE awesome. Love the cut!
Hi! You can buy men's Cydwoq's at Traipse in Chicago. http://www.traipseshoes.com/ for more information