Lovely Links: 1/30/15

Weekly Kitty:


(First seen on Instagram.) Cat palace, procured. Level 5 Cat Lady, ACHIEVED.

I gave myself a crick in the neck nodding emphatically while reading this piece about how short-sighted it is to encourage women to ignore their bodies completely and focus solely on accomplishments, personality, and intelligence. A favorite quote: “Most of the feminism that I’ve run into does tend to bifurcate mind and body in a way that seems unhelpful. You’re supposed to appreciate your body for the things it does for you, rather than realizing that in a very real way your body is you and that all the things your body does are things that you do.” SO IMPORTANT.

Sylvia is stunning in this edgy monochrome outfit.

Your sweater is pilling. Do you use a sweater stone or sweater comb to get it back in shape? (I’ll admit to using a sweater shaver myself.)

I got a sample of this Hourglass Liquid Lipstick a few months back, and just ponied up for a full-size tube. It is POTENT, so I dab on a couple of drops and then blend. It has better staying power than any lip stain I’ve encountered thus far.

Cyn’s moto-detail jeans are so, SO cool, and the perfect mate for her floaty floral top.

In a recent interview about her childhood and her Image Award-nominated show ‘black-ish,’ Tracee Ellis Ross said, “Women are asked to put forward, to a certain extent, a mask. And for black women, that has taken on greater significance, because the standard of beauty has not necessarily had the space for different definitions of beauty. I’m trying to find my own version of what makes me feel beautiful. On ‘black-ish,’ there’s a lot that has to be done working around my hair, in terms of scheduling.”

Over on I gave a few tips for deciding if a fashion trend is right for you.

A new group that formed to provide a place for young girls of color to connect and support each other, Oakland’s Radical Brownies earn “Radical Beauty” and “LGBT Ally” badges, study how Disney princesses define girls’ image of beauty, and talk about how that can affect self-image.

Gracey offers her thoughts on the best legging styles and brands for tall women. And she’s a fan, so she knows her stuff.

Related: K.Line swears by Hue’s denim leggings. She, too, knows her stuff and is a very discerning consumer.

This Sherlock-inspired outfit is fabulous. I love all of it, but the coat is especially amazing.

Assa shares some resources for designers who offer African print clothes in plus sizes, and reminisces about her childhood in Mali.

“Some feminist scholars refuse to portray naked female bodies, arguing that the sexualization and objectification of those bodies is inevitable. Others continue to experiment, searching for unique representational strategies. I, for one, insist that it is possible to resignify the naked female body, starting with my own body.” (Not safe for work viewing, art and photographic nudes)

Buying multiples of items you love is a much-lauded wardrobe-building technique … but it can backfire, as Grechen points out.

My own color preferences may have changed, but I still adore bright, bold combos like cobalt, yellow, and pink as worn together in this vibrant outfit.

Sarah talks about her experience living with Androgenetic Alopecia, saying, “Having no hair does not define who I am.” (Via Hair Romance)

The concept behind The Ugly Ducklings is intriguing. Feeling confident, valued, and understood is challenging for young women, as is remembering that your journey is what shapes you.  A little fuzzy on what the organization is actually DOING, though. Anyone else heard of it?

Writer Alice Gregory explains why a simple personal uniform makes her feel serene.

Uniqlo’s SPRZ NY collection is calling to me with a marvelous selection of Keith Haring graphic tees and sweatshirts.

On the importance of changing systems from the inside out: “I think my bro-ness largely contributed to my ability to reach my male privileged residents. The ideologies that my corporeality signified gave me a presumed rapport with them, allowing me to infiltrate their spaces, thus granting me the perfect opportunity to subvert those ideologies from the inside. To broaden the implications because of what my body signifies, I can go back home to Philly and be on the block spittin’ some bell hooks or Sara Ahmed to other Black dudes and be listened to because of the capital that I carry through my embodiment. Thus my bro-ness, while inimical in, say, a space containing older, white, second wave feminist women, is subversive and anti-patriarchal in a space containing Black Nationalists and hip-hop heads in North Philly precisely because I am granted access to that space.”

In honor of Australia Day, Imogen shares a pictorial dictionary of some of the most commonly used Australian clothing terminology. Budgie smugglers. Hee.

Forest green accents make this elegant taupe coat look even more sophisticated.

LPC and Une Femme collaborated on posts in which they explored their denim experiments, favorites, and styled yet to be tried.

“These women demonstrate that abiding by the Jewish law of modesty need not translate to dowdy, unflattering, ill-fitting clothing. Modest dressing can be beautiful, attractive, and, most importantly, fashionable. My modesty does not prevent me from buying fashion-forward clothing. On the contrary, it is the reason I have a unique sense of style.

Fascinating: What does a designer collaboration need to accomplish to be considered successful?

Corin and Carrie explain the Riot Grrrl movement in 20 seconds.

Focusing on the two essential purging questions – Is it useful? Does it bring you joy? – Lady Smaggle suggests five items that are likely lurking in your closet and should really be chucked right out.

My earring preferences are shifting. Instead of studs and big necklaces I’m doing big earrings and long pendants. These beauties from Lockhart Wrks are a new fave: Big and bold but super lightweight. And I’m still deciding if I can carry off these huge, bling-y chandelier earrings.

Worn Through recommends these academic studies and writings exploring the intersection of fashion and age.

Recently, the BBC program Woman’s Hour interviewed Rivkie Baum, creator a plus size fashion magazine called SLiNK. Alongside a weight-loss expert. So they could have a discussion about whether making stylish clothes in plus sizes “normalizes obesity.”

A hilarious riff on the concept of “cost per use.”

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Insomniac Sale Picks: Notched Collar Blouses

*In this late-night feature – which will run on Tuesday and Thursday of each week – I’ll gather up three fun items that are currently on sale online and share them with you! I would LOVE suggestions: Stylish wide-width pumps? Classic v-necked sweaters? Chandelier earrings? Petite dress slacks? What would you like to see featured?*

Katja requested a few picks for notched collar blouses, so here we go:

bedford fair notch collar blouse

Bedford Fair Long Sleeve Blouse – was $41.99, now $24.99

This blouse is the only real home run of the group as it comes in 14 colors and has a true notched collar. It’s made from machine washable polyester faille and looks like it might be a little shiny at times, but other colors appear more matte. Available in sizes 8 – 18, petite sizes available on Amazon in four colors. Size availability varies by color.

port authority camp shirt

Port Authority Silk Blend Camp Shirt – was $76.96, now $21.60 – $46.37

It was far easier to find camp style shirts with notched collars than actual long-sleeved blouses. This one is a silk blend that appears to have great drape, and could be worn tucked into a skirt or with a smart blazer. Available in this light green as well as ivory, pink, periwinkle, or black in sizes XS – 4X. Size availability varies by color.

talbots notch collar shirt

Talbots Wrinkle Resistant Paisley Shirt – was $79.50, now $59.62
with code feb25

I can see why Katja needed help with this one because it’s seriously slim pickings out there. The notch on this shirt collar is pretty darned subtle, but it’s listed in the item description and more pronounced than in most other shirts I found. And it’s Talbots, so that means it comes in regular, petite, plus, and petite plus sizes. So a whole bunch of yes to that. The store claims this striped version also has a notched collar, but that one’s even more subtle if you ask me.


Honorable mentions


Other not-currently-on-sale resources for notched collar blouses:

  1. Blair family of stores – In addition to the Bedford Fair blouse above, this group has some other options like this 3/4-sleeve polka dot blouse. Use the tabs up top to navigate. Many offer a wide range of sizes.
  2. Amazon – More short-sleeved options than long, but some cutes ones in there.
  3. eBay – When in doubt, always try eBay. Some of these won’t have the two-notch style Katja is looking for, but many do.

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Dressed for: The Earrings

Already Pretty outfit featuring Lockhart Wrks Double Dagger Earrings, Faux leather pants, olive green sweater, platform ankle boots, fringe handbag

Sweater – Gap
Pants – NYDJ (mine from last year, on super sale now!)
Ankle boots – courtesy ECCO (no longer available) – similar
Bag – Amazon/DIY (post here) – similar look
Earrings – Large Double Dagger courtesy Lockhart Wrks

Can I just say how much I ADORE Etsy? I have had so many great experiences connecting with vendors and working them on custom projects. And most of them are excited about their crafts and just as generous as they can be. Rebecca of Lockhart Wrks saw my post last week and sent me these amazing Double Dagger earrings as a thank-you. And they are amazing. I built this entire outfit around them and kept it purposely simple to let them shine. They’re quite big, but so lightweight and easy to wear. I’m smitten. It’s true.

I know some of you are Etsy vendors yourselves, and many others have shopped the site. Have you made any lasting connections? I also know Etsy is the most established, but that other online marketplaces connect buyers with artisans. Any other favorites?


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